Before Jumping into Relationship

 

Every body want LOVE but not every get really one, Really,u should ask urself quite sincerely if u’ve got what it takes to sustain a relationship.. U’ve been in and out of a number of relationships..too many in too short a time. Ever bothered to look into a possible cause introspectively?

For the girls,they always think they’re doing d guys a favour in dating them when all they have to offer is sex…and for the guys that have got some cash to spend,they tend to assume they can get any girl they desire as long as the money’s there…

Yea,these things are true to some extent. But believe me,they’ll phase out in d long run…for d girl finking she’s got her body to offer,he’ll get tired of screwing u if u’ve got nothing more to offer..Nd for the guy finking his money ‘ll continue calling d shots,d sensible gurl would move on in search of more tangible emotional needs.

I’ve heard too many gurls say “I can’t spend 5naira on a guy….I can’t use my money to cook 4 a guy…” blah blah. Really,that’s a broke girl’s mentality. Nobody said u should spend all u’ve got,buh dyu ever support him?…Dyu help him out when he’s stranded,no matter how little u’ve got?..Ever bought him even a singlet?

Do the words RESPECT,SUBMISSION,FAITHFULNESS,CARE,AFFECTION,HONESTY mean anything to u?

Dyu remind ur partner how special he/she is to u…dyu show appreciation for the little things he/she does?..Dyu elevate or downgrade his/her ego in public?…Dyu those lil sweet things for him/her?…..Ever been there to lend a shoulder to cry on? DO YOU LISTEN??
The list is endless,but fink bout it keenly… What have u got to offer in a relationship And remember it’s meant to be a partnership…not sole proprietorship.