I found this
on GQ Magazine and it got me thinking. How would ladies rather have their men
end their relationships - is it in a straight forward manner, the emotional
torture-leave-the-signs-on-the-walls kinda meanness some men get up to, or the
JFK Jr. style of sending a rose and never calling back?
Which ever
one, break-ups can be hard to deal with, but then not every relationship will
lead to marriage and even the ones that do, may experience cracks. So according
to GQ, this is the best way to dump her like a man. *Read and let me know if
you agree...
It's one of
the worst, most stomach-turning things a man can do. And most men do it with
about as much decency as whipping an aged nun with her own rosary. We can do
better. Here's what to keep in mind.
* Forget
about preserving your status as the sweetest guy on the planet. Don't rob her
of the opportunity to hate your fucking guts...
* Avoid that
pathetic line about it being all about you, or worse, that she's "too
good" for you. Being patronizing is just as shameful as using a Post-it
note to tell her you're leaving. And never, ever embark on a long, excruciating
campaign of low-level cruelty and increasing emotional distance until she
finally breaks down and dumps you because you were too passive and frightened
to do it first.
* Make a
clean break. That means no second thoughts and no reunion sex (unless she's
relieved it's over, fine with it in every way, but still wants to fool around
once in a while).
* Remember,
she might be happier about this than you are.
* JFK Jr.
was said to send a bouquet of flowers to women he was breaking it off with. And
while we can't fully confirm or even condone this, we can recommend the
sentiment behind it.
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