The next day
came, I prayed to the God my mother serves that morning in tears because I did
not have the nerve to refer to him as my God at that moment knowing what I’m up
to. I also prayed for my mother. I called her full name in my prayer.
Abigail Abodedbunmi
Isaac, o ni foju sukun omo, Ina omo oni jo e loruko Jesu
Meaning:(Abigail Abodebunmi
Isaac, you we not weep over your child and You won’t loose any of your
children)
I felt that
prayer needed to be said in my language. We set out with no hospital in mind.
We saw a hospital and decided to try it. We are about to enter the gate and
something stopped me. I tried to take another step but it’s like there’s a
force pulling me back. Right there I knew it was a sign.
Olu! I’m not
setting my foot inside this hospital, let’s check out another one
He looked at me
and he was like what’s going on. What’s wrong
with this one nau, let’s go in first and make enquiries
No, I said firmly.
My spirit is against this hospital
We continued our
search and came across another hospital and we decided to give it a try. We entered into
the hospital, I walked up to one of the Nurses at the reception and told her I
wanted to see a doctor.
She brought out
a form for me to fill. I filled it and gave it back to her.
She told me to
go back to the reception to sit that the doctor will call me in.
I joined Olu at
the reception, some minutes later, I was called.
I entered the
doctor’s office with Olu. We exchanged greetings. He asked me some questions
including why I wanted the abortion and I gave my answers.
He discovered I
was a student and She asked for my School ID card which I showed him.
He told me I’m
going to take another pregnancy test which I did. He directed me to the
hospitals laboratory.
Deep down within
me, I was hoping the result will come out negative, that is the only thing that
can put a stop to this nightmare, but unfortunately the result came ....
out
positive.
An hour later,
we were back in his office with the result.
He checked the
result and documented it, he also wrote down some things on the case note.
Are you
responsible for the pregnancy he asked facing Olu.
Yes sir he
answered.
Did you agree to
the evacuation the doctor asked
Yes sir, it was
our decision he replied
The doctor brought
out a form and gave it to him
You have to feel
this consent form, which will serve as an evidence that you agree to the whole
process
I just told you
I did
The doctor
smiled. You know we have heard of some cases of guys who sued hospitals for
aborting there babies without their consent. So you see there must be a proper
documentation
Olu nodded and
filled the consent form. The doctor gave us the bill and told us to go and pay
to the cashier. The fee was quite expensive. Its a big hospital, so I already
envisaged this.
This is too much
he said as soon as we step out of the doctor’s office
Seriously! So
you would have preferred we go to a quack ehn See I won’t let you ruin my life,
if anything happens in the future, you will look for an alternative I said
giving him a scornful look. To be sincere I’m beginning to hate him.
Wait! Where is
that coming from I ignored him, I went to the cashier and paid. I already
withdraw enough money from the ATM machine that morning.
After the
payment, I was told to sit in the waiting room beside the OR ( operating room)
I was there
alone. I called my cousin and told her my plight just in case anything happen
to me. I told her the name of the hospital and all she needed to know.
The doctor
called me into the OR, I saw the instruments on the table and ran out.
I can’t do this I cried
He asked one of
the nurses to call my boyfriend. He came and encouraged me but I was scared.
The doctors decided to give me anesthesia to put me to sleep.
Hours later, I
woke up. I saw my boyfriend, doctor and two of the nurses staring at me. They
were all sweating profusely despite the fact that the air condition is on. I
look at Olus eyes, they were red, it’s like he has been crying.
What’s going on
here I asked, terrified.
To be continued......
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